onboarding
Set up your story.
Add your story, choose what’s visible, then start.
Visibility
You control what’s shown.
Private by default. Turn on only what helps.
Private by default
Built for perspective, not exposure.
Nothing here is public or recruiter searchable.
Discoverability: zero
Your profile is not a public page.
You control visibility
Adjust what a match can see.
Meaningful interaction only
Built for context, not exposure.
Profile preview
Your BTDT profile at a glance
A simpler, matchable version of your story.
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Your story is being translated into something clearer, calmer, and easier to talk about.
What’s visible now
Visible
First name · Role and years
Private
Company names · Contact info
Next
See your best match and open one grounded conversation.
Ready
You’re set up.
You have a draft profile and one clear next step.
First action
Open your best match
Start with the story that feels closest to yours.