two ways into BTDT

Are you here to hear from someone who’s been through it, or to share what helped you get through it?

BTDT starts with where you are in the journey right now.

BT

BT

What helped you could help someone else. Share the turning points, perspective, and story that got you through it.

What it means
  • Been There
  • Pass perspective forward
  • Low-commitment story sharing
  • Help the next person feel less alone
DT

DT

You do not have to figure this out alone. Find someone whose story helps you make sense of where you are right now.

What it means
  • Doing That
  • Looking for perspective
  • Clarity report + turning points
  • Guidance grounded in lived experience
Pass it forward

I have perspective to share.

I’ve been through something similar. I want to share what helped in a way that feels useful, calm, and low-pressure.

Share what helped me
Find perspective

I need perspective right now.

I’m in it now. Help me make sense of my story, rebuild confidence, and find the part of someone else’s story that helps.

Find someone who’s been there

Most people start as DT and become BT later.